It’s June and in many places in the world this is the most popular month to get married! Of course wedding rituals and customs differ throughout the world but there are certain feng shui items that can attract the luck of marriage as well as stabilize new relationships! This is particularly important this year, as the Star of External Romance has made an appearance in the chart. In the ezine this week I’ve shared five such items for you to consider – especially if you are wishing and hoping for a proposal soon or you’ve just “tied the knot”.
And it’s always a good time to “touch base” with your heart – with your innermost feelings, unresolved issues and things that you may have buried deep inside a long time ago. This is an especially important exercise to do before getting married but it’s also very healing anytime that you set aside time to do this.
As you “touch base” with your heart, visualize the gold that lies within. Remember that the gold within you is far more precious than the gold in your wallet or your bank account. Know and believe that you already possess an abundance of health, wealth and happiness inside!
Five Ways Attract A Marriage Proposal
And Strengthen New Relationships
It’s that time of the year when many will be “tying the knot” and the Year of the Horse is a good one for marriage with the dominant star of the year – the Peach Blossom Star # 4 – residing in the center of the chart.
Here are five special feng shui items that can attract the luck of marriage as well as stabilize new relationships.
Double Happiness Phoenix to ATTRACT a Proposal
If your one and only hasn’t popped the question yet…and your still hoping to get married in the Year of the Horse…then you can borrow the luck of the Phoenix to speed things up. The Double Happiness Phoenix pendant is only for those who are serious about getting married!
Love Birds For ROMANCE!
Lovebirds in feng shui signify romantic, pure young love. If you’re a single woman then display a pair of lovebirds nearthe window to hook in the luck of romance and marriage. Newlyweds should position these pair of birds in the bedroom or in the center of the home to keep your romance alive!
Double Happiness Mirror (to ATTRACT MARRIAGE)
In Chinese tradition, the Dragon and Phoenix Double Happiness Love Mirror is given by a mother to her daughter when she becomes the age for marriage. It has the power to increase one’s feminine charm to attract marriage luck.
If you are newly married and carry this mirror, it brings stability and happiness to your marriage. To activate its powers, charge it under the rays of a full moon to infuse maximum yin energy. Once this is done, use it as a cosmetic mirror as reflecting your face onto this special mirror increases your beauty and charm.
Flower of Romance Amulet for FIDELITY
If you want your spouse to stay true, it’s important to protect your relationship from a third party by carrying the Flower of Romance Amulet. In the Year of the Wood Horse, new relationships are vulnerable to the infidelity star known as the “Flower of Romance”. It would be a good idea for both man and woman to carry this amulet throughout the year as doing so will help preserve your relationship next year!
Heart Jewel For TRUE LOVE
Activate the “heart point” of your home to strengthen your relationships. To determine the location of the heart point of your home, draw two diagonal lines from the four corners of your home and place a rose quartz heart jewel at the point where the lines intersect. Remember to keep the jewel clean! Once a month expose it to the morning sun to cleanse any negative vibes and recharge its energy.
This article comes from the May 2104 issue of Feng Shui World Magazine. In this “Wedding Special” edition you’ll also find information on how to choose the most auspicious date for your wedding, the correct way to design your wedding invitation, the importance of wearing jewelry, the Chinese Style Exchange of Gifts, Preparing the Marital Bed and much more!
There is no better time than now to focus on issues that are troubling you from the edge of your consciousness. It is by confronting unresolved issues that you have conveniently hidden away in the inner recesses of your heart that you can find the solace you need.
Sit down in a quiet place outside, or in a room with an open window and view to your yard or garden and breathe deeply, energizing the breath or chi inside you. Tune into your invisible channels and visualize fresh transparent chi as a white light flowing into and through your body, bringing about a lightness of being that is instantly refreshing.
Begin by gently going over in your mind everything that is causing pain in your heart. Perhaps it is something to do with a loved one? Or a misunderstanding between you and a friend that needs to be addressed. You could be having problems at work, arguments and rifts with your children…or you may be dealing with heartbreak caused by betrayal or an unfaithful spouse which may be due to the Star of External Romance which is powerful this year.
Think through what to do now and how to cope. Don’t try to deal with all the issues at once…take it step by step. Just thinking through the issues that disturb your mind and heart will have a calming effect.
Remember to look out into the scenery as far as the eye can see, even as you think. Then as you speak with your inner self you will not lose touch with reality…with the world around you.
Touching base with your heart…tuning within does not mean blocking out the rest of the world. It merely means allowing light into your heart.
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After graduating with an MBA from Harvard Business School, Lillian went on to pursue a highly successful business career in banking and finance in the 1980’s in Hong Kong. Her business acumen, drive and abundant energy soon led her from the finance world to the world of luxury department stores and boutiques where, through a leveraged buy out, she became Chairman and shareholder of The Dragon Seed Group.
All the while she was guided and taught by her feng shui masters in Hong Kong and China – and she attributes much of her monumental and quick rise to success in Hong Kong directly to them.
Lillian soon decided to retire from active corporate life and return to Malaysia to raise her beautiful daughter, Jennifer, and spend more time with her family. It was at this time she began to devote her energy to writing and furthering her study of feng shui.
She published her first book in Malaysia in 1995 that quickly became a best seller and the rest is history. Today she is Chairman of Wofs.Com, a feng shui franchise and merchandising company run by her daughter, Jennifer Too.
She trains feng shui students and future consultants at her Certified Consulting Institute in Malaysia and is much loved by her readers, associates and students for the way she teaches practical feng shui in a user-friendly way, using ordinary situations and circumstances that interest people and affect their everyday lives.
In November 2009, at the International Feng Shui Convention in Singapore, the well-deserved title of GRAND MASTER OF FENG SHUI was conferred upon Lillian Too. Immediately following this accolade, in early January 2010, she received the prestigious Brand Laureate Personality of The Year Award presented by the Deputy Prime Minister of Malaysia! There seems to be no stopping her popularity and these days!
Lillian believes everyone should know her secrets and learn how to adapt feng shui to modern life… and she warmly welcomes you into her Mandala.
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A new trend that has become popular in recent years is coloured diamonds. The more saturated the colour, the higher the value! But be forewarned…the more brilliant the colour in the diamond, the more unlucky it is said to be. Even though these naturally occurring coloured diamonds are more expensive than regular colourless diamonds, they are said to be very unlucky!
Think back to Jennifer Lopez and Ben Affleck’s relationship…it broke down after he gave her a 6.1 carat pink Harry Winston diamond for their engagement in 2002 – and they never made it down the aisle!
Speak to Them of Love and Life…
Birds are very yang creatures and belong to the Phoenix family. They bring opportunities that have the potential of ripening into great success. Feed them and make friends with them. Speak to them of life and love and share your innermost hopes and secrets with them. Let them take your wishes into the cosmos with their very special energy…you may receive exactly what you are dreaming of!